the choice is yours
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I stumbled upon this story in facebook.
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.
He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its colour and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died.
The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.
"A journey of a thousand milesbegins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiven, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY :
Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
p/s : sedutan dari sebuah emel.
Belek2 tafsir, terjumpa ini,
"Kemudian dia termasuk orang2 yg beriman, dan saling berpesan utk bersabar dan saling berpesan utk berkasih sayang"
Al-Balad : ayat 17
"Dan barangsiapa mengerjakan amal-amal salih dan dia dlm keadaan beriman, maka dia tidak khuatir akan perlakuan zalim kepadanya, dan tidak pula khuatir akan pengurangan haknya"
Toha : ayat 112
Orang yang beriman,
saling berpesan2 utk bersabar dan berkasih sayang.
Saling berpegang tangan, teguh.
Walau apa pun, tetap saling menyebarkan sayangnya, memaafkan dan bersabar.
Sebab itu foundation nya.
Kerana iman, dia cinta.
Kerana iman, dia tetap bersabar menyebarkan cintaNya.
Dia percaya akan masa depan yang boleh dia corakkan.
Orang yang beriman,
tidak takut dizalimi, tidak takut diambil kembali pinjaman2 Allah terhadap dia (nikmat berjaya, nikmat kaya, nikmat kasih sayang),
sebab dia yakin Allah lebih mengetahui.
Jika betul dianiayai, maka Allah lah penghukum terbaik, bukan dia.
Dan doa orang2 yang dizalimi itu lebih sentiasa di dengarkan Allah, maka dia tidak takut. Dia tidak sedih.
The choice is ours ;)